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You say tomato I say tomahto

Mike thinks that picture is cute and says "attitude." I'm fairly certain it screams "I am a tired old witch wearing a sombrero because I left my pointy hat at home and feel absolutely naked without it." I am quite certain that anyone that is honest and a true friend will agree with me.

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Jason and Kenna said…
All I'm saying is Sigorny Weaver at her finest!

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